Superior

Hi Assalammualaikum.


So today, I'd like to write a little bit bout yea, as I typed at the title section, superior.

I was playing Twitter and found Yuna's cold tweets bout her one friend, who is Shea got bashed on Instagram for having a piercing at her septum. And most of the hatred came from our community juga, Malays.

Yea, from Islamic view, there (might be) some flaws in doing it. (Sorry idk much, um, maybe you guys can help me here) but, wait...

Oh wow, look at these comments. Now let's speak bout other points. First, why do you think they have the guts to embarrass certain people online? Well, on a bigger scope, bukan tentang kes ini sahaja. Because, yes, there are influences from others that make them feel attracted to do the same thing. Second, because it has become a norm sampaikan they feel so comfortable and dont feel guilty at all to do it. Thirdly, there will a point which kalau kita tak practice the same thing as them, we will be labelled as 'Not Cool Enough' and you wont feel that you guys belong to the society. Hence, in order to be accepted, korang pun buat. Fourthly, to get attention. Yela, kau tegur dia nak bagi dia betul kan? Kira kau warrior teragung la kan? Kalau tak tegur secara kasar, nanti kau tak jalankan tugas sebagai seorang mukmin la kan?

Lols. See people? We aren't living in a culture yang sopan santun (dengar cerita orang Melayu memang terkenal dengan lemah gemalai dalam perbuatan) tapi culture yang suka look down towards each other. Hm... i dont wanna look down on my own roots tau, tapi kalau macam ni la cara pemikiran aku kena berfikir, macam ni la how should I act, terus membidas, memalukan, menghina, just to get the acceptance, .... (pandai pandai isi) Because as far as I remembered bout learning Islam, tak pernah pulak ada ustaz, ustazah, tokoh Islam, guru guru ajar kena hina diorang and samakan dengan binatang.

Yang irony-nya, yang comment acah macam Islamik sangat tu majoriti mencerminkan diorang muslim yang sejati. No wonder la ramai look down on Malaysian's muslims. Dah ini yang kita tunjuk. Physically, yeah, muslim enough. But spiritually, mentally? sama ja macam orang minda orang tak khatam belajar, TAPI TAK SEMUA YA. Ada yang Alhamdulillah, bila nak tegur, lembut je. You guys yang suka tegur secara sarcastically or lagi rough ni kena ingat tau, each of the persons dalam dunia ni ada ego masing masing. Ada yang lagi kita cakap 'jangan', lagi dia buat. Hah yang spesis macam ni, kau ingat jalan ke dakwah thru cara kasar tu? Kalau boleh... manfaatkanlah cara lembut :) encourage everyone thru your behaviours, actions, the way you think. In Sha Allah.

WAIT. PALING IRONY. Kalau diorang say that "Kak kita ada culture kak. Melayu tak buat benda benda bodoh ni". Oh puhlis. Dek non, actually kan, banyak lagi culture kita yang seems khurafat and tahyul tapi kita pegang gila gila. To you, it may be cultural. But others, it may be a deviance. Macam biasa, paling femes, lenggang perut. Boleh teka anak laki ke perempuan la apa la. And yeah, some of our ceremony or things memang obviously diadaptasi dari culture lain. Yela, kurun ke-14 baru ada Melaka, pentadbiran, and things. Tamadun lain dah berabad dah. So... simpan jela point tu.

Just remember this, semua orang ada kekurang, but it doesnt mean that you can make their flaws just to cover up yours ;)